“For if you love those who love you, what reward will you have?” Mt. 5:46 CSB
You are no better than other people.
“Send picture and I’ll reply” – – – it’s a common message in personal ads and it makes sense in this day and age to exercise caution. But when it comes to loving others, do you find yourself saying: Send picture first?
We all say it in different ways ‘I have to see if you’re good enough…I’m not sure you’re worthy of my love…You need to act the way I expect before I’ll love you.’” It’s time we stopped “evaluating people by what the world thinks” (2Co 5:16 CSB).
In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus said, “Your Father in heaven…causes the sun to rise on good people and…evil people…he sends rain to those who do right and…those who do wrong. If you love only the people who love you, you will get no reward. Even the tax collectors do that. And if you are nice only to your friends, you are no better than other people. Even those who don’t know God do that; you must be perfect [mature] just as your Father in heaven is” (Mt 5:45-48 NCV).
God’s love toward us is “perfect” because it is unconditional, nonjudgmental, and comes with no strings attached. The Bible says when we were His enemies, “[He] showed his great love…by sending Christ to die for us” (Ro 5:8 NLT). So, is there someone in your life who hurt you and now you’re having a hard time loving them? If so, pray: “Father, I’m struggling to love [fill in the name]. Help me to let go of judging and blaming, and begin to love them the way You love me.”